For to us a child is born, to us a son is given;

and the government shall be upon His shoulder

 and His name shall be called Wonderful Counselor,

 Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

 Isaiah 9:6

I am discovering this Christmas is very different from past ones due to our financial downsizing. I can remember spending hours and weeks shopping for the family and then just as long wrapping. Then there were weeks of baking and delivering goodies to friends and loved ones. By the time Christmas came (and even up to the night before) I was still running back to the stores thinking I didn’t have enough and looking for just ‘one more gift’. I crawled out of bed on Christmas morning feeling beyond exhaustion. It was fun in a crazy, insane kind of way. But, living on less money has brought it’s own kind of peace in the midst of the chaotic storm of December that I’m frankly enjoying.

I can remember reading excerpts from Laine’s Letters on her gift giving budget of $3.00 per person and wondering how anyone could buy a decent gift for that amount. (She made a specific effort to point out that she prayed for the Lord to give her ‘eyes to see’ before she entered a store).  The thought stuck with me and now, more than 8 plus years since I first read her letters, I am seeing that it’s very possible to give less and still bless the person you are gifting. I love to look back over the years and see how the Lord has brought different people into my life that have radically impacted my way of thinking and prepared me for the life that He has given me the past few years.

This year I cut my gift giving budget down to a third of what we normally spend. Practically speaking that means I targeted to spend $20.00 on each grandchild. The adults have exchanged names this year with a $20.00 budget per gift. I have 7 grandchildren that I buy gifts for. I also have 3 birthdays in December. I asked their parents to give me suggestions which was very helpful and then I watched the sales. I was able to find a nice gift for each child… one that they had hoped for.

A few of the BEST gifts I received for Christmas last year

 performing for Grammy!!!

Staying out of the stores this time of year has been essential to sticking with my budget. I’ve had one point this month (thankfully it was while I was at home) that I panicked feeling that I had not given enough. If I had been in the stores regularly or reading the sale ads I’m sure I would have given into the pressure to buy more. When I really took time to look at the panic I realized it was a fear that my grandchildren would not love me as much because I was unable to buy them more. Once I evaluated the fear I could see it was ridiculous.. I am not loved because of what I can or cannot give at Christmas. If I am.. then we have a serious problem.

As much as I love to give gifts I can see the downsizing as a very good thing (if received in a godly manner) to not be bombarded with every material thing the heart desires. Do you remember that episode of Little House on the Prairie where the children were snowed in and it looked like they were not going to receive any gifts for Christmas?  Remember Mr. Edwards? He came at the very last minute and brought oranges I believe and maybe a few small trinkets. The children (and Mrs. Ingall) were overwhelmed with gratefulness. Can you imagine the response from a child in this generation if they were given just an orange as a gift? Their expectations have been raised by the abundance of a prosperous time in the history of our nation. As our economy (and the nations) downsizes I’m hoping so will their expectations.

There will not be the crazy wild tearing of a gazillion packages with paper flying everywhere this year. I’ll kind of miss that in one way. I do love to give and see the excitement on a child’s face when they see a mountain of presents. But, my heart is content knowing that God has sovereignly assigned the amount of money He has given and it is all working into His plan for my good and therefore the good of my children and grandchildren and all involved. That contentment brings far greater pleasure than a mountain of gifts ever could.

 I continue to learn in God’s school that age old lesson that Paul spoke about several thousand years ago …

But godliness actually is a means of great gain, when accompanied by contentment.

 For we have brought nothing into the world, so we cannot take anything out of it either.

 And if we have food and covering, with these we shall be content. 1 Tim 6:6-9  NASB

Has your family cut back on your budget for Christmas this year? How has it effected you personally? What did you do to cut back? 

I’ve become fond of the story of Moses the past few years ..especially the exodus from one place to the unknown. I was thinking about this story quite often the past few weeks. Maybe you’ll understand when I tell you our new plans…

A few weeks ago my husband and I interviewed for a job as a caregiver in the town where 2 of my children and their families live. We’ve been praying to move back close to our family and my mother and now it seems that God has answered our prayers.  We will be caring for a 90 year old woman who in exchange will provide a studio apartment and a small salary. I will cook two meals a day along with light housekeeping. We’re free to come and go as we please since she is still self-sufficient and very independent. We’ve known her son and his family for years so it’s not like we’ll be taking care of a complete stranger. 

My mother will be within walking distance. I haven’t lived in the same town with her for over 18 years. She’s needing a bit more help the older she gets so I’ll be thankful to live so close.  Five of my grandchildren will once again be close by. I’ve missed being a part of their lives on a regular basis. I’m already dreaming of how I can spend more time with them. 

                                                                                          Celebrating Mama’s birthday at my son’s house this year.

So.. the paring down continues. Our new home will be close to the same size as the one we’re living in now. The only difference will be that we won’t have the extra storage we have in the barn. I’ve spent the past few weeks going through paperwork, paring down cookbooks, setting aside clothes we don’t wear, tossing out old business paperwork and going through my books to save only the best of the best. I won’t start packing until after Christmas so I’m using this time to look over everything within our small little home to make sure it’s absolutely essential to take along for our next move. Living in small quarters has really given me a sense of what is truly essential to our daily existence. It has really simplified my life.

I’m assuming I won’t have a lot of time to keep up with blogging this next month so I wanted to wish all of you a blessed Christmas. I hold so many of you close to my heart. My prayer for you and me is that our hearts will lay hold of the beauty of our Savior this Christmas and that He will truly be the greatest gift.