Month: May 2009

  • A Godly Family’s Booklist


    My heart filled with thankfulness as I looked over the list of beloved books that our family has read over the years. How blessed we have been to fill our minds and hearts with such wonderful, godly literature. Many of the Christians that I met through the pages of biographies feel as if they have become dear godly friends and mentors. They have taught me so much!

     I’ll be adding to this list periodically. I have a stack of books I am currently working through. Many of these books can be ordered through our website bookstore which helps our family with a small credit.

    (Please remember that only God’s Word is perfect, so as always, read
    with discernment.)

    Encouraging stories for wives
    Henry and the Great Society by Roush, Sr. 
    Stepping Heavenward by Prentiss
    First We Have Coffee by Jensen
    A Way in the Wilderness by Wagler
    Aunt Jane’s Hero: Portrait of a Christ-Centered Home by Elisabeth Prentiss

    Godly Wives, Instructional
    An Excellent Wife by Peace
    A Woman After God’s Own Heart by George
    Lies Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss

    Child Training
    Shepherding A Child’s Heart By Tripp
    Age of Opportunity by Tripp
    The Mother at Home by John S. C. Abbott
    The Little Book of Christian Character and Manners by Dedrick

    Stories of Faithful Christians
    A Heart for Imbabura by Charles W. Shepson (Ecuador)
    Autobiography of George Mueller (England)
    Hudson Taylors’ Spiritual Secret by Dr. Howard Taylor (China)
    Mrs. C. H. Spurgeon by Charles Ray
    Mimosa by Amy Carmichael (India)
    Green Leaf in Drought by Isobel Kuhn (China)
    Gladys Aylward by Gladys Aylward & Christine Hunter
    Evidence Not Seen by Darlene Rose (Papua New Guinea)
    Eternity in their Hearts by Don Richardson
    Granny Brand by Wilson (India)
    Through Gates of Splendor by Elliot
    In the Arena by Isobel Kuhn
    They Looked for a City by Buksbazen
    Mary Jones and Her Bible
    Jonathan & Sarah: An Uncommon Union by Gerstner
    Idelette by Gerstner
    A Token of Love by Janeway

    Spiritual Growth 
    Loving God with All Your Mind by Elizabeth George
    The Treasure Principle by Randy Alcorn
    Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper
    The Blazing Center by John Piper (DVD)
    Practicing the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence
    A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23 by Keller
    The Pursuit of God by Tozer
    The Knowledge of the Holy by Tozer
    Knowing God by Packer
    The Pursuit of Holiness, The Practice of Godliness & The Discipline of Grace by Jerry Bridges
    The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment by Burroughs
    Future Grace by John Piper
    In the Shadow of Death by Kuyper (old reprint on nursing those who are dying and those who are facing death)
    Amy Carmichael’s books… too many to list.
    Quest for Meekness and Quietness of Spirit by Matthew Henry (old repint)
    Decision Making and the Will of God by Friesen
    Spiritual Depression by Lloyd-Jones
    Charity and it’s Fruit by Jonathan Edwards
    When God Weeps by Joni Eareckson

    Missions
    The Road to Reality by K.P. Yohannan

    Classic Allegories
    Pilgrim’s Progress by Bunyan
    Hinds Feet on High Places by Hurnard

    Children’s Books
    Missionary Stories with the Millers by Martin
    Princess in Calico
    Mary Jones and Her Bible by Ropes
    Children’s Heritage Series (Too many to list)
    Aunt Vera’s Bedtime Stories (missionary stories told to Aunt Vera’s adopted children) by Vera Dingman
    Huguenot Garden by Douglas Jones

    Teen Books
    Mimosa by Amy Carmichael
    Green Leaf in Drought by Isobel Kuhn
    Gladys Aylward by Gladys Aylward & Christine Hunter
    Evidence Not Seen by Darlene Rose
    Stepping Heavenward by Prentiss
    Eternity in their Hearts by Don Richardson
    The Quilt by T. Davis Bunn
    Mary Jones and her Bible by Mary E. Ropes
    Princess in Calico Anonymous
    Pilgrim’s Progress by Bunyan
    Hinds Feet on High Places by Hannah Hurnard

    A Few More Good Titles
    Passion & Purity by E. Elliot
    Quest for Love by E. Elliot
    The Quilt by T. Davis Bunn
    Princess in Calico by Anonymous

    Help for those suffering
    Praying Through Cancer: Set Your Heart Free from Fear: A 90-Day Devotional for Women by Susan Sorensen and Laura Geist

    Classic Devotionals
    My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers
    If by Amy Carmichael
    Joy and Strength by Tileston
    Morning and Evening by Spurgeon
    Daily Strength for Daily Needs by Tileston
    The Attributes of God Journal by Tozer
    Just a Moment with You by Kay Arthur
    The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers and Devotion by Arthur Bennett

    Knowing God
    Trusting God by Jerry Bridges
    The Attributes of God by Arthur Pink
    Knowing God by J.I.Packer 
    The Attributes of God by Tozer
    Pursuit of God by Tozer
    The Sovereignty of God by Pink

    Learning How To Study the Bible
    How to Study Your Bible by Kay Arthur

    Hermeneutics and Exegesis: Rules of proper Biblical interpretation
    Studying, Interpreting, and Applying the Bible by Henrichsen & Jackson
    How to Read the Bible for All It’s Worth by Fee & Stuart

    Bible Application: How to apply the scriptures to your life
    Applying the Bible by Jack Kuhatschek
    How to Apply the Bible by Dave Veerman

    Systematic Theology
    Systematic Theology by Grudem

    Bible Study Tools
    The Complete Word Study Dictionary by Zodhiates
    Strong’s Concordance
    Vine’s Expository
    Westminster Confession of Faith

    Biblical Counseling: Learn how to counsel others using only Scripture
    Competent to Counsel by Adams
    The Biblical View of Self-Esteem, Self-Love,
    Self-Image by Adams
    Self-Confrontation by BCF
    Christian Counselor’s Manual by Jay Adams
    (All of Jay Adam’s books.. too many to list)
    Women Helping Women by Fitzpatrick & Cornish
    The Peacemaker by Ken Sande
    Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave by Welch
    Love to Eat, Hate to Eat by Fitzpatrick
    Competent to Minister by Bobgan
    Blame it on the Brain by Welch

  • Frugal Friday

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    I’ve been reading a page or two of the Tightwad Gazette each night before I go to bed. I remember reading that Laine  would read through her volume once a year and I thought it was a good idea. One thing I read lately that struck me as helpful is to stop buying plastic bags. All kinds.

    I’ve periodically washed out my bags over the years depending on our financial state. So, that was nothing new to me. But, the TG mentioned something I hadn’t thought of before. She said that she began to save any type of plastic bag that she normally would have thrown away. For instance:  cereal bag linings, vegetable plastic bags from the grocery store, bread bags, frozen vegetable bags.

    Washing and drying plastic bags can discourage someone trying to acquire this new frugal habit. I have a few different methods depending on how I feel. Once I wash them I use the end of a hand towel over one hand, which I place inside the bag, while using the other hand wrapped in the opposite end of the towel to wipe the outside dry. Or I hang them to dry on a line using clothes pins. I store them in an old baggie box or sometimes I’ve wrapped them around a paper towel cardboard tube and use a rubber band to secure them.

    Since my husband’s job change we really don’t have money left for groceries in our budget so I’m all for finding ways to use what I have on hand.






  • Keeping House… step by step

    I didn’t really know how to ‘keep house‘ when I married.  My precious parents gave us daily chores but putting it all together to keep a home did not come easy for me.  I tried different housekeeping schedules over the years but never landed on one that worked for me until I found FLYLADY.  (Actually, it was a routine similar to FLYLADY but I now use FLYLADY’S routine)

    I don’t follow her routine perfectly. Some weeks I only get the HOUSEBLESSING finished. But, overall, the FLYLADY method helps me stay on top of the basic jobs in my home.  I basically do the HOUSEBLESSING at the beginning of the week which takes me about 1 hour.   I then work 15-30 minutes  daily in the ZONE assigned for that week.  FLYLADY posts the ZONES at the beginning of each week. A zone is the room that you are going to organize or deep clean!  Remember, though, it’s only for 15-30 minutes a day.  This week the zone work is in the kitchen.

    So, as I’m puttering in the kitchen during meals I’ll take special note of anything that needs to be cleaned. This week I have washed my kitchen rugs, mopped the floor, wiped down the window blinds and washed all the counter tops along with the front of the kitchen cabinets.   I still hope to wipe down the fridge and polish the stainless steal and clean the oven.  

     I prayed for many years that God would teach me how to keep an orderly home.  It didn’t happen in one day, one month or even one year. In fact, I continue to learn new skills every year.   I couldn’t see it at the time but God was teaching me … small things.. step by step. I remember choosing one skill to work on at a time. One time, in particular, I focused on changing the habit of not making my bed daily. I heard someone say to match an undisciplined habit with an established habit. So, I decided to not leave the bedroom after dressing until my bed was made.  Somehow I never found the time to go back and make it once I had left the room. Making that one small change made a big difference and helped to establish a good habit that helped in my overall housekeeping routine.

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    I have found in my Christian walk, more times than not, that habits don’t always change overnight. Some do.. but  for a myriad of reasons some take more time.  That doesn’t relieve me of the responsibility to obey God daily if there is sin involved.  But, it does help to remember that sanctification is a process and if I do my best and trust that God is working out His best……then I find hope that a bad habit (or sin) will eventually be changed into a good (or godly) habit.

  • Wives Who Are Like the Church

    Pastor Mike has started a series on marriage. Normally, our pastor preaches expositional but a few times throughout the year he will teach topically. I am thankful for his desire to train the church body in God’s Word concerning marriage. Today he taught on the wife’s role in the marriage. I’ve typed out his outline in case you are interested in listening to his sermon at the Stevinson Chapel webpage. Our pastor loves us enough to not pull any punches when he teaches. His reminded us today what God’s Word says… if you love God then you’ll obey Him and submit to your husband. If you don’t want to submit to your husband then don’t say you love God. (1 John 5:3) 

    Note: Pastor Mike included the Greek spelling in his outline but I could not find the Greek letters on Xanga so I had to leave it out.

    Wives Who are Like the Church

    “Every Faithful Woman’s Battle”
    Ephesians 5:22-24

    1.  The Prologue of Every Faithful Woman
         A.  To be happy and content every woman must:
               1) Submit to God
                     (a)  James 4:6-7
               2)  Submit to her husband
                     (a)  Ephesians 5:22
         B.  To ensure happiness and contentment every woman must:
               1) Know what God says
                      (a) Psalm 119:11, 2 Timothy 2:15, 2 Peter 1:3
                2) Strive passionately to live out what God says
                      (a) Titus 2:5
                                  Reviled (Gk)  “blasphemy” to insult
                3) You must know what Satan wants:
                      (a) a foothold/ an inn/ an opportunity
                                   Ephesians 4:27
                                   *     Opportunity (Gk)  place, room, beachhead
                                                    2 Cor. 2:11, 2 Cor. 11:14, 2 Cor. 10:3-5
                      (b)  When you stray… you stray towards him (Devil)
                                    1 Timothy 5:13-15

    11. The Purpose of Every Faithful Woman
          A.  To Get God’s Word Right!  (2 Timothy 2:15)
                1.  Back to the Garden (Genesis 3:1-2)
                     (a)  Satan is highly intelligent, more than you
                     (b) Should never engage in conversation with him (world)
                                God’s Word is nonnegotiable (You must have the answer)
                2. Back to the church (Ephesians 5:22-24)
          B.  What is the purpose of the church?
                1. First purpose of the church
                    (a)  1 Timothy 3:15
                    (b)  Behave (Gk)- return back to, overturn, behave accordingly, to live in a certain way. (John 2:15)
                    (c)  Household (Gk)- 110 of the 114 times refers to a house like a home.
                    (d) Pillar (Gk) – support, column, stud (immovable0
                    (e) Buttress (Gk) – a basis of support, ground foundation, mainstay, the base
                2.  Second purpose of the church (Ephesians 4:12)
                    (a)  Equip (Gk) – to make fully ready
                    (b) Building Up (Gk) Building construction, securing, making more stable.
                    (c) God’s plan.. hence, Our only hope for our children is.. Women!
                           1)  You must learn to battle “The prince of this world”!
                                 (a) 2 Corinthians 4:4
                           2)  You must learn to battle your sinful desires!
                    (d) Only battle Strategy against the World, Satan and the Flesh:
                           1)  Teach/ Train/ Obey/ Correct (common/ plain) Words of Christ!
                                (a)  Proverbs 22:6  “train them towards God’s plan/ will for them”
                                (b) Romans 10:17  “Jesus words”
                                                  Word (Gk) rhema – “the sayings, statements”
                                                            Jude 3-8, Rv. 22:18-20
                                                                       1 Timothy 6:20 “guard them w/ life”
                                                                        2 Timothy 3:1-17  “the middle of a fight”
                           2) You must stick to the battle plan.. the pattern
                                      2 Tim. 1:13
                                          Pattern (Gk) Compound word:
                                               hupo: to place under
                                               tupos: print, figure, fashion, impression=
                                                        To outline, trace or sketch, an example, a model, a pattern to imitate
    111.  The Problem of Every Faithful Woman
              A. The voices
                    1)  The enemy
                         (a) Genesis 3:1-2, Matthew 4:1-11
                    2) The real enemy
                         (a)  YOU (Matthew 15:18, 12:34)
                                  Mk 7:14-16  “environment/ people can’t make YOU sin”!
                         (b).  Often, It’ You who is harming you and your home
                                 1)  1 John 2:16
                                      (a)  It’s your sinful desires (Jeremiah 17:9)
                                                  Desires (Gk) epithumia – deep desire, lust, craving, longing
                                                  Flesh (Gk) sarx- physical body, self
                                                  Eyes (Gk) ophthalmos – site, seeing, understanding
                                                  Pride (Gk) boasting, a braggart, false pride
                                                  Possessions (Gk) Life style, living, goods, resources, wealth
    1V.  The Plan of Every Faithful Woman
            A.  Love your husband and children (Titus 2:4-5)  “blasphemy”
            B.  Keep and rule your home through training and discipline
                  1)  Titus 2:5, 1 Tim. 5:14



  • Frugal Friday

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    Homemade Tortilla’s

    This is Laine’s recipe for homemade tortillas and they are wonderful. I’ve tried other recipes but this has been the best.

    Jen’s Tortilla’s

    4 c. flour
    1/2 c. Crisco
    1 t. salt

    Blend together well until the size of small peas. Work with your hand. I also saw on Laine’s website that she recommended using a bread maker set on the dough setting. I’ll try that next time.

    Stir in:

    2 1/2 c. boiling water

    Stir in and mix well until a nice dough forms.  You may need to add more boiling water, if necessary. Let cool 5 minutes. Knead 5 minutes. You can store this dough in the fridge and pull it out to use as needed. Pinch dough off, about the size of a golf ball, and roll into flat circles. Fry on an ungreased, hot skillet for 1-2 mintues on each side or until lightly brown. Wrap in a towel to keep warm and pliable. Store in plastic bags. Makes 15 tortillas.

    My notes: I made up the balls first and lined them up in a 9 x 13 so they were ready to cook. I used 2 cast iron skillets going at one time. I also used a little flour to roll them out.