Mothers are responsible to mold and shape lives; to raise children who,
in the words of G.K. Chesterton, “require not so much to be taught
anything as everything.”
“I
might as well be at the controls of a moon shot,” reflected one mom,
“the mission is so grave and vast.” And so it is. The training and
discipline of our children in the fear the Lord is an awesome task,
demanding of our full attention (see Deut 6:5-9).
That’s why, if there’s one concern I have for this generation of mothers, it is the potential for distraction.
Blogs,
facebook, twitter and texting allow moms at home to stay connected with
the outside world like never before; the Internet makes it possible for
women to contribute skills and gifts to the church and the marketplace,
while at home with their children. These are all tremendous blessings,
and when used wisely, can bless and serve our families and glorify God.
The Proverbs 31 women, long before the Internet, managed a wide
range of tasks for the good of her family and community. (But did you
notice what time she woke up each morning?) Depending on a woman’s
capacity, gifting, personal discipline, as well as the ages and number
of children, there may certainly be room for other things.
But we
must be watchful that these “other things” don’t distract us from our
primary task of mothering. We must walk carefully through this season,
with all its opportunities, and make the best use of our time with our
children.
Truth is, we can’t effectively train our children on
the side. We can’t discipline them here and there. We can’t teach when
we’ve got a free moment. We can’t mother intermittently.
Inconsistent training is ineffective training.
If
we are distracted by projects or pleasure, we may miss valuable
teaching moments, opportunities to encourage, disobedience that
requires discipline, or a chance to show affection. These moments, once
lost, are gone forever.
So ladies, may I encourage you, as I do
my own daughters, to give training and discipline your first and full
attention. Walk carefully, and keep your eyes on the mothering road.
More thoughts tomorrow.
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Comments (3)
This, I find, can be a problem with me but the Lord normally convicts my heart when I end up being side-tracked because I know my children need me to be there. You are quite right about this!
Convicting & true. Much needed reminder for me often!
how convicting. living in a tiny town without even any stores , save a walmart, i tend to spend too much time on the web and join too many things. wow! eye opening. thanks